Been reading your posts for YEARS..and the only female bashing you've EVER done (along with countless others) was connected to the Clinton's...(Is that good enough..?)
I think her room mates may be covering up for themselves..if you get my drift.
It's all bizarre.
Dudette..I have news for you....re: my next door neighbor..she's a LOT of things..but female ain't one of them..
I think the roomies were not her friends, her friends stayed home. And maybe kids did sack out in each others rooms. And maybe they assumed she went willingly and spent the night with this guy.
Good friends, know what to expect of you. Ones who aren't so close either don't know, get glee out of it and fodder for gossip, don't care or just dont notice. They were all up very late, I read 5 am for some.
It goes to show that if no one personis responsible, then nobody is.
And I do thinnk from raising three girls that they don't tell each other what to do as much as some do. Grown women who travel together know the rules, you tell everyone where and when you go and will be back. But teenagers, fresh out of high school, they don't. And they don't act like each other's mothers. They all act "cool". Even college girls do the same.
They may be covering for their inattention, their lack of concern and their youth. But they aren't the criminals here. They are just kids.