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Good answer. Bad that you lost your husband, but your answer was good.

Val's been through it recently, and seems to be doing much better.

I can't speak for her, but she is a a goodhearted woman and might have some insight she'd be willing to share.

[restornu]

I still at a place where one part of my mind is committed but the rest of me is left standing on the curve!

I longing for cordination where all agree to be in syn!

enought of this!:)