[Dianna]

Apologies for this sort of thing don't cut it with me. If no one had complained would she be apologising? Doubt it.

[Diddley]

Apologies for this sort of thing don't cut it with me. If no one had complained would she be apologising? Doubt it

I agree with you.
I have always held that an apology (most apologies) just means, “OK. You caught me. Now leave me alone.” There is rarely any real atonement.