Fifteen is young. I think it's disgusting that men would hit on you at that age. Also, a man in drag coming to your work to humiliate you is pretty pathetic. It's too bad you had those experiences. Still.. I disagree with you that all gays are disordered. And I stand by my statement that 24 men hitting on you is a very, VERY high number. An atypically high number for a straight man.
I only asked about the drag shows in Sydney because they're famously amazing there. When they hosted the Olympics, they even had drag queens in their... opening or closing but it was closing ceremony, I believe. I went to a show on Oxford Street, and it was more of a straight tourist event than gay.
It's all about depressing the self-esteem of the target until the target is receptive.