[Technogeeb]

Infidelity is not an issue here though

Then don't get divorced. Infidelity is the only legitimate reason (except perhaps physical abuse where your life is at risk) for divorce.

[Stick a Fork in Me - I am Done]

I have been trying to negotiate a separation.

[foolscap]

Wow, thank you so much techonogeeb for your sterling example for Christian compassion. I'm sure this person was really in need of your judgment. It is obvious this is a person in pain who is asking a legitimate, heart felt question. I don't recall hearing a request for your judgmental take. It must be wonderful to be so sure of yourself. I'm sure it makes it must more satisfying to kick people when there down. You are a fine example of "Love your neighbor as yourself" Thanks again for sharing your faith.