[chasio649]

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[HeartofGold]

Now I get to put forth one woman's view. I have recent personal experience on this subject. I am nothing like the person you are describing, mainly because even though I am divorcing, I am in control of my life. I own my own business, have many friends, have a good relationship with my teenage kids, and have faith in God who is holding me up. I fought agains't the divorce for many years because I didn't want it, but I can't live with someone who doesn't care for me but is a narcissist. He wanted out and pushed until it happened. Most women want love and security, not just a party all the time. I advise any of my friends when they talk about divorce not to do it, because it is the worst thing I have ever been through and I agree many people do it for the wrong reasons, but life is not fair and blame is not always 50/50. What about the man's responsibility to love his wife as if she is part of his body?

[TightSqueeze]

Well, let me offer a revisionist view of divorce, from a male point of view:

You might have said that... Mr. Bill couldn't have his cupcake and eat it too, you know.

[NYCVirago]

Hey -- don't be dissing all viragos now!