Prayer Warriors Needed - FReeper desperate

myself | 11/12/02 | Genesis defender

[Genesis defender]

I am so ashamed of my actions. I need help finding a job badly. If any FReeper has possible job contacts around Sheboygan County in Wisconsin, please let me know. I am willing to learn and do ANYTHING for a job. I do have a computer tech certification, so I can troubleshoot computers. Customer service is a plus of mine. I have a degree in Broadcasting and a minor in Public Communication (HR-related).

Someone please help me.

[Genesis defender]

I am also willing to do any kind of factory-type work.

[Registered]

I will put you on a prayer list. Keep your chin up.

[Genesis defender]

ping for help

[Genesis defender]

thank you.

[navygal]

Consider it done.

[alnick]

I'm praying for you and your family.

[Utah Girl]

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Is your resume updated? My sister put her resume with with flipdog.com and received many job offers. It doesn't hurt to try to find a job online. Good luck.

[el_chupacabra]

You and your family have my prayers. It sounds like you have hit "rock bottom". I've been there. It does get better. Please try to remember that the best remedy will be your own prayers.

[Genesis defender]

I may not reply immediately because I am still caring for my son at home

[AppyPappy]

Having an off day?

[riley1992]

You may not like this at all but I have news for you, it's not up to God to help you. You are a grown man. If this is what you want, get off the computer and find a job and break your back to save your marriage. You brought it to where it is and only you can try to fix it. God isn't responsible for it, you are. I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and hope you do what's right, though.

[Bella_Bru]

She has good reason to give me the boot. We have been married for five and a half years, and before we were married I promised her that I would take care of her and support the family so she could stay home. Unfortunately, I have a huge problem with following through on my promises.

For five years I have made similar promises of getting a job, looking for a job, and just doing chores around the house. I tried for a time, but eventually slid back to my typical behavior of procrastinating. I have held various jobs throughout this time, but none were well-paying enough to support a family.

A family member of mine went through the same thing several years ago. He was downsized, after 20 years. After that, he spent a lot of time at home, in his sweats, watching tv. He would try to find work, but he'd often not return calls, blow off interviews, and if actually did get the job, he'd quit after a few days.

After a while, his wife did grow weary of it, and encouraged him to see a doctor. He had gone from being a put together, driven guy to a virtual shut in. She was convinced it was more than laziness.

Turned out he was suffereing from clinical depression, which, did run on their side of the family. It was brought out by his layoff/firing/company reorganization. A few months of therapy, a year of the lowest dosage of Celexa possible, and now he is back on his feet.

[John Jamieson]

Have a lot of personal experience with this type.

[Genesis defender]

Thank you for your instant judgment and non-support. I'm asking for help and you spit in my face. Happy now?

[looney tune]

Two book recommendations for both you and your wife:
1) Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas (Zondervan)
2) How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong by Leslie Vernick (Waterbrook Press)

"When I am afraid, I will trust in you, in God whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid. What can mortal man do to me? (Psalm 56:3-4)

[Skooz]

Go to your pastor and get counseling NOW.

I am not normally a "counseling" advocate, but having a knowlegeable and loving third party invoved is crucial. Do it ASAP. Make the call first thing in the morning. You can work through this.

Also, get on your knees and pray tonight. Pour out your heart to God. He can work miracles in a marriage. I know--He worked a tremendous miracle in mine. My marriage was OVER. Finito. But God somehow put it back together and it is better than ever. He will do it for you, too.

[Skooz]

Your favorite porno site down?