[JudyB1938]

You asked Kim, not me ... but what do you mean by "off topic"?

As to your other question ... The Refuge Board is a forum outside of FReeRepublic where people can discuss this case without having a bunch of hateful, personal comments against the poster. You have to be "approved" to be a member.

[KnutCase]

I get mail every day that says I have been "approved". Does that count? Actually all of those letters go in he trash without opening.