[Gabz]

I generally stay away from this issue.

But hubby and I talked about it and came to pretty much the same conclusion.

If the ex-boyfriend is going to take full custody and responsibility, including all prenatal care, he should have say in the decision.

If he is just grandstanding because he doesn't believe in abortion or wants his 15 minutes of fame, he's got no say.

But in the end, if he is so concerned about the possibility that a possible offspring of his may be aborted - he should have kept it in in pants to begin with.

Hopefully he will learn from this.

[hobbes1]

But in the end, if he is so concerned about the possibility that a possible offspring of his may be aborted - he should have kept it in in pants to begin with.

The inverse argument can be made about her/getting pregnant.
( i am surprised to hear such a sexist comment from you Gabrielle..) J/K!

[Cyber Liberty]

"...including all prenatal care..."

Well, that part's going to be pretty tough to enforce. I can't even get the human hemorroid I used to be married to to even bother keeping a regular visitation schedule for Cyberbot, and I could just see that pugnacious b!tch cooperating with me to ensure proper prenatal care.