...but once everything is 'done', I become a 'Mary' and sit back & listen & ask questions & enjoy.
My husband then becomes the 'Martha' & starts refilling everyone's iced tea or coffee, or passing food around, or checking on folks in general.
Just from something I picked up from my retired military friend (not anything concrete)....I'm going to take a wild guess & say ...'not before the elections'....
(I'm referencing the Thread you & Dog were on earlier on the non-cheese side of the Forum)