Since you 2 aren't talking about women getting special treatment in divorce court,what are you talking about. Are you saying Courts are unfair to both partys?
In my experience it was NOT that way.
I've spent my time in the Divorce/Custody court circus and yes, from my experience the courts, at face value, are slighted toward the woman in these matters. Can men gain fair and equal treatment with regard to custody? Yes they can if they have the smarts, time and money to play the court game the way it has to be played to win. Its a hard game to play when your opponent starts out several moves ahead of you.
Am I against child support? No I'm not. Am I for fairness and child support reform? Yes I am.