In other words, nothing you posted indicates any level of new-found maturity in women. Ignoring the apparent fact that someone pissed in your Wheaties, you obviously have no idea what maturity actually means. HINT: It doesn't mean being able to buy and drive (horrors!) a car with a big engine. Any incompetent drooling imbecile can do that, so I personally wouldn't claim that as a mark of maturity and achievement unless your standards are really low.
Tortoise, you're wasting you time with this one. She's arguing like crazy, but has made so many leaps of faith that I can't keep track of her religion any more. She still hasn't read the original article, or has read it and decided that she likes the option of keeping that atomic bomb next to the bed so that she can rake her next victim over the coals financially. And all the while, she'll be trying to claim the high moral ground, whining "he wouldn't change", and "I thought he'd sell the Harley".
Funny how certain women make a bad choice, then somehow blame the man. What's not funny is that the court system lets them get away with it.