I think that both men and women have been absent in the marriage. If you put two people together who don't have a clue as to what commitment is about, and who have completely shallow concepts about life, things like adultery and divorce happen.
Been out swimming today and didn't see alot of this thread till now.......your very enlightened and the men here would do well to listen to you.
......me, I'm a divorcee so therefore I'm obviously just a bitter shrew ;-)