I agree with the thrust of your comments-but I think they are quite pejorative, unnecessarily so, towards men.
I have two sons, age 22 and 18. Girls at their age are quite sexually aggressive. They have both been involved in relationships where it is quite unclear who is using whom.
I was single for several years in my 40s. I met many women whose dating policy was, "F*** first, ask questions later".
This is, as you point out, a very poor strategy for husband-finding. I'm not at all sure that women who search this way are victims, however.