Seven years ago I was "raped" by the Ex whom literally stole everything I owned and drummed up a bogus domestic abuse charge, signed by a judge from another city whom was an in-law family friend. I went six weeks without seeing my two kids, then was thrown a bone of 4 times a month visitation and ordered to pay 1/3 to 1/2 of my take home pay as child support.
It took years of ass kissing, record keeping and selfish stupidity on the Ex's part before I was able to get myself back on a fair and equal footing with regard to custody and visitation.
So, I can understand a bitter post when I see one because I've been there, been bitter and now, thank God, I am better. The courts are slanted in favor of the woman, that is a fact. And it is unfortunate that the outcome of custody preceedings are not based on fairness, but rather courtroom games, favoritism and politics.