I (female) have to agree on this too, but with a couple of comments. The men I have known who have been financially ruined seem to have married fairly low functioning women, the ones who have little or no skills that would allow them to have a well paying career. Additionally, these women, maybe because they have not been in the "real world" of work, political office nastiness, finance, have little or no emotional coping skills and seem unable to effectively deal with life's daily stresses.So, when the divorce happens the women end up with the kids, living in the house, not having to work, while the guy lives in an apartment sucking down KFC...
Now, on the other hand, I have known women who make great money who have end up paying alimony to the husband.