[DennisR]

"In a nutshell men don't want to pay if they aren't milking the cow..."

True story. But is it not also true that women marry men for the express purpose of having children and having him work and pay to raise them? I am not saying that they do not love the man, but if the man they loved said "No" to having children--whether is was during dating or after marriage--what would the woman do? How would she feel?

And in the interest of full disclosure, I am divorced and have two married daughters. They were past the age of child support when my wife divorced me.

[Bobby777]

I'd say in a nutshell, men don't want to be a walking cash machine to support the distant life-style of a random human being ...

if the court laws were reversed 180 degrees, I'll bet there would be fewer of these type comments ... I weep for our society ... we're done for ... even if one achieves a successful marriage, the children will be subject to this self-imploding line of reasoning that our courts promulgate ...