Guys denied access to their homes, children, financial documents, etc., and who are treated like thieves by escorting law enforcement personnel when they go to get their underwear are a candidate for becoming verbally abusive, at a minimum.
Thank God my Ex was foolish enough to record herself and paramours in flagrante delecto on videotape while I was out-of-town at work. The copy I made made the divorce much smoother.
Yes, I did see it coming, but tried to get things turned around(put the romance back). That was before I found the tape....
Cost: $380.00, two six-packs of Dos Equis (to retype the stipulation so it would be uncontested), and half of what we had purchased together. Not bad, but it did hurt.
That was twelve years ago, and I have remarried--one of my best friends.
It isn't marriage that is bad, but be incredibly careful who you marry.