[Prodigal Daughter]

You're talking apples and oranges here. Chandra was murdered and she probably was murdered by someone she knew, fill in the blank, in which case she ignored the DANGER SIGNS.

My mother died in a head on collision when she was 21. It was her fault because she was driving at night and she fell asleep and passed the median and collided into another car. Her passenger walked away without a scratch. I'm like a hawk with family and friend that drive at night. I'm like a broken record about driving without enough sleep.

My mother caused her own death and G-d did allow my mother's death because He is sovereign. His ways are not our ways.

[Howlin]

I wasn't talking about how she died; 2sheep implied that people who engage in what it considers EVIL ACTS face and deserve death.

My son was 27; he wasn't married; I'd bet my house he had had sex.