I especially like the idea of a pot luck dinner, after all the work is done...My dearest memories of church, were when we had potluck dinners...got to sample everyone elses best foods, and the fellowship was marvelous
I am sure that your cemetary is quite wonderful...I like those types of cemetaries, where the families show their love, by caring for their own...(Kind of reminds me of the movie 'Driving MIss Daisy', where Miss Daisy refuses to have 'perpetual care' provided by the cemetary for her husband...she wants to do the planting and care herself)
It makes me think I am living an episode of "The News From Lake Wobegon" All the characters are there, including the potluck!