Blackie, I have NEVER set goals - never! I wouldn't carry them out if I did. I take things as they come - whatever's going to happen, is going to happen. When I wake in the morning, I'm cheerful, but I can just as easily become sad or grouchy with one word or one incident! That's me. A take-me-or-leave-me-cause-it's-the-way-I-am kind of person. :)
But we're keeping this thread bumped, aren't we? LOL
Be careful about saying "never"...:o)
"Goals" can also encompass: contracts, promises, accountability and keeping one's word...maybe... :o)
Don't forget, we all have our own interpretations of what's so... LOL
Speaking of "what's so": does your husband ride motorcycle... ??