I see your point and don't really disagree with you .. but come up to Philly and see some of the women who forget their age .. it would explain a lot of what I mean
I don't let other peoples screwiness get to me.....so they have a boob job, a tummy tuck, a wrinkle remover, they dye their hair, they find a glamourous job, they paint their nails and faces, they perm their hair, they're clotheshorses, they run around with 18 year old men......if it makes them happy, just let them be happy. It ain't no big deal....especially seeing as how they haven't ask me to pay for any of their 'happiness'.
You wouldn't do it....Darlin' wouldn't do it....Val wouldn 't do it.....I can't remember what sweet said.....so I'm the oddball who doesn't care if love comes as a youngun or an oldun....so long as love comes that is what I see that counts.
Ain't life a hoot! I will bet you all, we could find someone on FR who would poo-poo absolutely everything we do in our lives.....take it from an old lady.....forget what 'they' think and make the most of your own individual lives and be happy. You NEVER know when the happiness will be pulled out of your life.