Few people know how to really help or listen or just be patient, but that doesn't stop meddlers and predators from jumping in as "friends" or "experts" and taking advantage of someone else's tragedy. Folks just don't like to see others upset and feel the have to do something
You are right .. Grief is a process that many folks go thru .. sometimes it take other longer but in our own way we pull ourselves thru it .. it takes time and cannot be fixed overnight
Now I will say there are those that can't pull themselves together and really need professional help ..
I hope people who really need help can find it in this treacherous landscape of idiot "experts."
Think of them testifying in court cases..... like the Yates case. They'll be out in full force in the case of the brother and sister who murdered their little 6 yr old brother. Of course both of these little murderers had been "evaluated" before when they committed arson at a school and were investigated for family abuse. They were probably given prescriptions - but the public won't find out. Fat lot of good they've done, but that won't stop them from testifying as experts and making a few more bucks.