[HairOfTheDog]

He used to before... whenever I needed help... - I think I lost that fringe-benefit when I crossed over to thirty.

[palo verde]

rofl I remember turning over to 30
my parents got involved in me standing on my own two feet
I think my mistake was buying into it too
I was involved in being independent
but when I moved to tucson, my friend put a for sale sign on her house
man drove up and said he'd like to buy it for his son
suddenly I felt so bereft
I felt all that my struggles to be independent had bought me was winding up feeling so daddy-less
after that I reversed course in my thinking