There was a time in our 28 year marriage when my wife and I both thought we wanted out of it, maybe what saved it is that neither of us wanted to be blamed for ending it + I guess more importantly, we never stopped being in love with each other.
Anyway, we managed to work it through and these days, and it's been many years now, we have felt like newlweds again, we are so happy and feel so lucky.
It's funny, I have always been kind of a dark and brooding person while Jeanne is more like you, very bubbly, cheerful and outgoing. But somehow, after all these years, I've gotten pretty cheerful myself, so anything can happen I guess.
Anwyay, all the best for you and your beautiful family, everyone here thinks you're one of the best hobbits, your presence adds so much to the hole and everywhere else you go, I'm sure.
My wife and I tell people we've been married 16 years...12 of them good ones...