Right you are...we live only once...my hubby does not mind me spending the money...heck he spends enough money himself on his collections....but we had said we were going to stop buying all this stuff, because in three years, once he retires, we want to hit the road, and live for most of the year in our RV, traveling and seeing what there is to see...we are not selling our house, just leaving for a place to return to for a short rest from traveling if we need it...
But he figures, enough is enough with all these 'things' that we buy....oh well, I guess I will just have to wean myself gradually...