That said I do admit to chasing every female who was possibly available and attractive to me when I was single. I never, knowingly, included married women in that pursuit and I did at least look for a wedding ring and ask. I further, admit to looking and appreciating the many beautiful women everyone sees every day.
Were I not to do that I would have to check to see if I was still breathing. When I am asked what people should look for in a spouse I will usually answer that the most important things are shared values and sense of personal honor. That and love of your spouse will sustain you through the bad times and there will always be bad times, unfortunately.
Stay well - stay safe - Stay armed - Yorktown