[mwl1]

Kids are 14 and 10.

[Donzerly lights]

If the 10 yr old is a boy, you might be able to try for custody when he gets to be 12 or 13?

[poweqi]

I'm sure they are learning how to be abusive too, and they are learning that ya stay in a abusive relationship. Kids are resilliant and can endure a lot. I'm sure they already have. Why don't you teach them that you DO NOT stay in an abusive situtation?