Your projections and shame tactics stopped working on men a long time ago. And as I said and you choose to ignore, they're not afraid to talk to women. They'll even sleep with them. They just won't marry these women because these women are not marriage material.
You aren’t reading the thread, they are afraid of them, try catching up with the thread, and your dig at the Marines was pretty stupid, claiming that they “know” that the women they are still talking to, dating, and getting married to “are not marriage material”, your insult to the Marines is too silly to be meaningful.