While some males might be as you state, it is not most males. Most males are responding to the incentives provided them and arent willing to be a male black widow spider just to have a family.
If you dont change the system, there is no purpose in being married for a male. Zero purpose.
If you are reading my posts it isn’t marriage I’m pushing, it is that these timid males get over their fears and shyness and try to connect to the opposite sex, and quit being so freaking weird and self absorbed with more and more excuses why they won’t approach pretty girls.