Not valid to any of my posts, and he made up that ridiculous and dishonest fake position for me.

Actually, my response was quite valid and quite honest.
The original article posted and many reader responses dealt with the fact that the decline of marriages and families in America are attributed to dysfunctional male behavior. The article and most other posters (myself included) acknowledged that such behavior (i.e. unemployed basement-dwellers) exists and is a problem. However, it also underscores the fact that a big reason for the decline of traditional families is dysfunctional and obnoxious female behavior - feminist ideology that teaches them to resent men, malignant narcissism egged on by social media, sexual promiscuity, etc.
Your retort was that no, the problem is all due to loser men who don't appreciate and don't attract women, with the implication that female behavior might also have something to do with it. Not many men would want a relationship with someone absorbed in posting instagram selfies, subscribes to feminist ideology, or who has slept with half the town and had children by 3-4 different men.
When I and other posters point out these things you just return to your mantra that only pathetic losers and grouchy old misogynistic bachelors fail to appreciate and be fascinated by what has unfortunately become all too common behavior among young women. As another poster pointed out, you seem to accept the liberal premise that to clean up society, it's (solely) men who need to change their behavior, not women.