While unemployed, basement-dwelling 30 something males certainly do exist, harping on this point ignores the other half of the equation: "where have all the good women gone"? No man win his right mind wants to put up with a shrill, entitled feminist harpy (often overweight, covered in disgusting tattoos and piercings, and with strange haircuts and dye jobs) who talks about how she's a "strong independent woman" when it suits her while feeling entitled to as much of your time and money as she likes and offering very little in return for the trouble.
Many conservative pundits and pastors White Knight for such women. They blame men for the poor quality of women.
They say that men haven't inspired women to be better. That men need to MAN UP! and improve themselves, so they'll be worthy of women. Whereupon, presumably, women will happily become devoted, feminine, faithful and loving wives and mothers.