I did this, then I went there, then I spoke with X, then I, I , I. What about daddy?
Oh, by all means, pile on. Should she remain silent if he is unwilling or unable to fight this? What if he is deployed? What if he is in a high-security agency and cannot by law get into a political fight? What if he dumped his wife and kids for someone he met online? But by all means, criticize the mother.