That’s the evil of surrogacy and IVF. Parents are shelling out big bucks so they expect to get what they pay for. Any thing less than perfect just will not do. They are not having a baby they are purchasing one.
That’s like blaming the gun. There is no evil in IVF but like a gun it can be misused by evil people. Homosexuall couples should not be able to adopt via IVF or any other way.