[A_perfect_lady]

Another potential negative is that most people who have not been married would prefer it not be their partner's 2nd go around.

Oh I'm sure. What man wants to deal with the trauma other men caused? That's no fun! LOL!

[FLT-bird]

Oh I'm sure. What man wants to deal with the trauma other men caused? That's no fun! LOL!

I wouldn't assume "trauma" nor would I automatically assume the man was the one who caused it. After all 70% of all divorces are filed by women unless they have a college degree in which case it rises to 80%.