Females wanted to be like men. Men, without responsibilities, only do as much as they need to do for themselves. Women wanted men’s positions, so men have left the bills to the women.
Actually, it's a problem at both extremes, highly educated, dogmatic, and selfish VERSUS intellectually lazy uneducated (I'm not referring to whether or not a woman has a degree, but whether or not she is curious about the world we live in and is at least as interested in current events as she is in the latest beauty/skincare/makeup podcast).
On that end of the spectrum, IMHO, you have women who see men as a meal ticket and would rather hang out with their mother or girlfriends than actually engage in a meaningful marriage.
Just from my experience...
My father was probably the most lonely bored man I knew. Everyday for decades the same thing. Get up. Go to work. Come home. Eat a dull dinner maybe once in a while prepared by my mother. Take a shower. Go to bed. Rinse and repeat....for 40 years until dropping dead. Not a single day of his life filled with solitude or the adventure being a solo man can be. I did not want that life so never got married or had kids (that I know of) and can say I don’t regret it at all.
And look around at other marriages? How many are enjoyable happy marriages? How many can you look at and say “I want that.” Even on TV scripted marriages? Who would want that even? Stories like this make men out to have some sort of responsibility to breed the next generation of taxpayers and an endless ATM to fund people who hate us. Well. There are plenty of people being born and when the reward is nothing, it is no wonder men would check out of society’s traditional rolls we could be proud of. Men built civilization. And the people who benefit most from it are destroying it.