My husband sometimes grouses because a large part of my (therefore our) social circle is Spanish-speaking, but it’s not like he’s put together an alternative. They admire him for showing up, even though he doesn’t speak the language.
” it’s not like he’s put together an alternative.”
I get it. “Our” friends are couples who started with the wife and myself becoming friends. Then the men were included. None of the guys made/make an effort to develop friendships on their own.