[fwdude]

I thought the “gay” hook-up apps took the place of bathhouses?

[ansel12]

“”””I thought the “gay” hook-up apps took the place of bathhouses?””””

Part of the homosexual thing is being noticed and risk taking, simple dating is not really at the core of homosexuality, just as marriage and lifelong monogamy isn’t.

Numbers, public spaces, conversions, drama, play acting, an audience, all part of the lifestyle.