Sorry about your dad too. So schocking for your family and mine.
My Nigerian MD is very smart. I had a covid test the minute they were available. No covid. Then saw Doc, asked if I should get shot anyway. He smiled and said:
“You look very healthy to me. Comd back in six months.” Dr and I and the nurse all laughed.
Mine is an old guy near retirement. He hates the corporate medicine company he works for but with a year or two to retirement he’s putting up with it for the retirement benefits
He’s much more open about what happens in that hospital out side of the hospital
I am pretty sure either he knows or he thinks the walls have ears