Oh my Lord! Quit with the demonization of all women! Get over your problems with your mother, grandmother,aunts,sisters, daughters, grand daughters, great grand girls or wives..or funky extramarital relationship drama brought on by your own exalted self and poor choices.
My wonderful husband of 55 years passed last August. The most important thing he taught me…he was 23 at the time and I was 18… never be a victim, suck it up and enjoy your life. No one is responsible for you but you! He was right and it saved my life.
…and now after months of grief, his words encourage me to suck it up once again, however much it hurts to be without him. He was proud of me, a woman. He loved and cherished me and respected my opinions . He counted on me to take care of some things and I counted on him to take care of other things…we divided this by ability and expedience so our lives were enhanced by this. I cannot imagine how anyone with such animus toward the opposite sex could possibly find any happiness and peace in life.
I also married a teenager. Mom was skeptical. She might be turn out to be right. However, going on 49 years... I think she might have been wrong.
So sorry for your loss