Very sad tale as old as time- gold digger ho vs guy who couldn’t keep it in his pants until marriage. Feel sorry for the kids who the mom will probably brainwash against the dad while he pays and pays and pays. Sigh.
You reap what you sow, read that somewhere....
They have been dating for 10 years (he was 17) and knew each other for some time before that. It sounds like they had kids before they married and before they ironed out some key life issues, but that’s on both of them. She doesn’t sound like the typical “gold digger ho.”