As a woman, if I were single, I would be mighty particular about going to a man’s apartment or whatever. Naturally, I don’t know the particulars of the case, but I’d have to know a man pretty darned well before I went to his apartment. But then, I’m old school.
These days it can be very dangerous even in a restaurant. You could never put your drink down, even a coke. I’m glad I was born when I was.
Guys have no idea what their buddies do. Women today have to deal with more than the guy trying to grab a cheap feel.