Our son, who is divorced and retired, wants to marry a younger divorced woman, who is working 2 full time jobs to support her 5 teenage children.
The ex-husband contributes nothing and even owes child support in six-figures.
If this lady marries our son, her children will lose their elegibility for scholarships and medicaid, and she refuses to transfer that responsibility to our son.
She and the children want and need him in the family, but this is a problem.
Wait to marry until the last FAFSA for the youngest kid is submitted.