Why would he be expecting consensual sex when they haven’t even dated?
Such is a pretty common occurrence.
Yes, the body language you mention is very common. Lots of people understand it intuitively, others do not. A fair amount is cultural and is learned.
Promiscuity is also common, and lots of people want sex without much of a relationship, probably more men than women, but that seems to be changing as well.
I appreciate your insight and comments. Please continue.
“My guess is he expected consensual sex for value expected, such value to be provided in the future.”
Lol, no woman with more than a single brain cell is taking that deal. We are hard-wired to get value first. If she’s sugar-babying, well sugar daddy is going to provide the goods first. Especially not from middling successful middle aged men.
“Promiscuity is also common, and lots of people want sex without much of a relationship, probably more men than women, but that seems to be changing as well.”
Again, you’re glossing over the age gap. Young professional women may be hooking up in their age group, but not older men in her career area. We know better than to sh!t in our backyard. If she was the type to trade sex for career advancement, she’d be far more sly about it than to cry rape. There is no career benefit in that.