Men would rather date the secretary than the boss.
Men don’t care about a woman’s career, it just is.
I'd honestly be OK with either. Its great if the wife makes a lot of money but its not all that important to me. Lemme put it this way, if the choice is between a hot 25 year old in a blue collar job or much less attractive 35 year old who makes a lot of money, I'd choose the former every time all else being equal. So would most men. Women would overwhelmingly make the opposite choice.