I have a friend with two autistic children, one, her son is profoundly autistic, totally non-verbal, is incapable of doing even the basics of daily hygiene by himself and requires 24/7 care. As an adult that is almost impossible to obtain.
Her daughter is severely autistic but has limited verbal skills and can handle most of her daily hygiene needs with a little help. Her problem is she is very aggressive and violent in her behavior, so she also needs 24/7 care for her safety and the safety of others. There is, interestingly, places that provide care for her, though they are not easy to find.
I can attest to the fact that those who push the autistic agenda are not working for her kids. They want the kids that they can do pretty photo ops with. Kids like her son and daughter are to be used only to bump up the numbers, not as examples of people who need help.
twins?