Like the first time I was at a topless beach in Europe. None of the ones I wanted to see ever went topless.
LOL. My first encounter with a clothing optional beach was in Northern Germany, on the shores of the Baltic. My girlfriend teased me at my reticence to disrobe. Wasn’t long before I saw a guy who was 5’5” weighing 300+ pounds. At that point I said “eff it” and shed my trunks. Didn’t go into water, the Baltic is damn cold even in summer.