Some women like to go after men in a relationship.
Every time I was dating or in a serious relationship, other women would come on to me.
When single...crickets.
Must be the scent of a woman! /groan
I am a firm believer in the scent of woman, and it works both ways. They can tell if you’ve been on an extended losing streak and won’t have anything to do with you.
“Every time I was dating or in a serious relationship, other women would come on to me.”
You’ve been pre-approved. Women act as a pack and look to see what other women are doing, both for risk-avoidance and to promote harmony in the group.
Hence, fashion trends.
Or, as you note, why women are attracted to taken men.
This is why internet “influencers” exist. And get paid handsomely by companies.
And it is also why Democrats desperately attack conservative women as “weird” or whatever. They don’t want the pack to follow.