I would NEVER forgive my spouse ... EVER ...
I suspect the wife hasn’t exactly been faithful, neither. So it’s a tie.
And Many marriages end. The sad truth is that past behavior is the best predictor of future conduct. Emotions aside, you would be safer betting on ending a relationship rather than trying to preserve one. It is interesting how decisions we make in the moment send our future lives hurtling in vastly different directions than we might have anticipated. For better and for worse. I wonder how often people’s children are carefully considered in decision-making, again, for better or for worse? Thank you for replying.
I don’t think I could forgive that. My wife would, after she got done murdering me real good.
“Mercy triumphs over judgement.” James 2:13 (NASB)