Long term, you my be right, but only as long as the family can or will protect said nubile female. If she goes out on her own, she is in peril if she can't get started with sufficient capability to land a job that pays well enough for her to stay safe.
I chose to go the other way with regard to the university hump, preparing my kids to be ready for college at 14 to have their STEM PhDs done by 24. In both cases by varying degrees, the universities had their way with them.
That’s why, in her 20’s, she needs to attach herself to a man in order so that she doesn’t have to work.
I know that sounds insulting to those who have accepted feminism as their way of life, but my way is based on biology and the propagation of the species and not one’s desire to serve self.
I don’t have a problem with woman working, but the value of a woman is her biology and her ability to bear children. 6 kids growing up to become doctors are more valuable than the woman herself becoming a doctor.
I also don’t have a problem with a woman training, while raising children to the point where they start to separate themselves from the mother. At that point, the children should be spending most of their time with the father, to learn how to face the world. Just as the father goes about his day in doing man responsibilities.
I’m not just putting obligations upon the woman and leaving it at that.